Reasons Why Girls Should Enjoy Being Single In Their 20s.


1. Be spontaneous.

This may be one of the only times in your life when you can do whatever you want, when you want and not be restricted by someone else’s desires.

2. Travel.

It’s one of the best ways to discover who you are; you’ll meet lifelong friends and make lifetime memories along the way.

3. Spend as much quality time with friends and family as you can.

Having another person in your life leaves less time for others you love, so make the most of being able to give current loved ones as much of your time now as you can.

4. Watch rom-coms and binge watch “Girls” and “Sex and the City” because you can.


5. Work hard, play harder and take time in between to reflect.

Your only responsibility is yourself, so enjoy having time to focus on what you want.

6. Learn to be okay alone.

You’ll get to know yourself better and it’s a quality you’ll need throughout your life.

7. Go on as many dates as you want.

The more, the better because the more guys you get to know, the easier it will be to know when you’ve found the right one.

8. Did I mention travel? You must travel!


9. Read hundreds of really great novels.

It’ll expand your knowledge and provide you with life lessons that will help to guide you along the way.

10. Figure out what your values are because eventually, you’ll realize how important it is to find a partner who shares those values.


11. Experience what life has to offer — get out there and do it.

Appreciate being young and free because eventually, when you do settle down, you’ll feel far more content and have less of a desire to look back. You’ll be ready for the next phase if you make the most of your youth.

12. When you get into bed, lie right in the middle, starfish-style because one day, you’ll only have one side.


13. Enjoy the freedom of being able to make decisions based solely on what you want.

This right once belonged to your parents and soon, you’ll make decisions with your partner. But right now, you hold all of the power.

14. Buy the expensive bag or the overpriced shoes you love.

Eventually, your hard-earned money will have to go towards more important, less exciting things. Right now, however, it’s all yours. Treat yourself.

15. Stay out late and sleep in as long as you like — who’s judging?


16. Figure out what you enjoy most and use any spare time you have to focus on it.

Learn to surf, get fit, write a book and take advantage of the time you have. It belongs to you and no one else.

17. Move to a new city.

If there’s nothing tying you down to where you currently live, don’t waste the chance to experience a new place, new people and new challenges. Home will always be there for you when you need it.

18. Be a “yes” person.

You have more space in your life now than you ever will; don’t let any opportunity pass you by.

19. As cliché as it is, try not to look for love.

It will only distract you from what you could be enjoying during the here and now… just let it happen.

20. Do all of this and more.

One day, when you’re telling your children about life in your 20s, you will be able to tell them how much you truly lived and how ready you were when you brought them into the world.

Designer.

“帮我搞个logo吧,你抽点时间随便搞搞就行了,不用太复杂!”
“好的,请往下看”








朋友开饭店,你吃饭他收钱,大家觉得理所当然;
朋友开文具店,买文具他收钱,大家觉得理所当然;  
朋友开服装店,买衣服他收钱,大家觉得理所当然;
朋友做设计,收钱,大家会觉得“这个朋友怎么那么吝啬。”

饭店打折,大家说:“这个朋友真好”;
文具打折,大家说:“这个朋友真大方”;
服装打折,大家说:“这个朋友是真够朋友”;
设计打折,大家会觉得“这个朋友有点小气。”

饭店说:“以后来我这吃饭,全免费!”
大家说:“不行!你是做生意的”;  
文具说:“以后来我这买文具,随便拿!”
大家说:“不行!不合情理的”;  
服装说:“以后来我服装店,全部任穿!”
大家说:“不行!哪好意思啊”;  
设计师:“以后有什么设计就找我帮手!”
大家说:“好的,谢谢啦!”    

大家看到物质,看到饭菜,看到文具,看到服装,认为这些都是要钱购买的。  
但有一种行业,大家都看不到它的物质与劳动,就是设计。  
当大家看到一张纸,印着一个LOGO时,便认为这只是一张有图案的纸。  
其实,设计师的那张纸,就是饭菜,就是文具,就是服装,就是生存的手段。   
  
当大家吃了饭,买的东西,穿了衣服时,便大大方方的付款。  
当大家让朋友做设计的时候,却只是说“很简单的,随便弄一下就行了,很快的”;  
我不想告诉你们,设计师们已经听了上万个朋友说同样的这句话。
   
   现实上,设计师的这“随便弄一下”,却是更比那碟饭菜,那支笔,那件衣服,来的更苦更累。出卖的不是那几元的成本,而且是精力,是健康,是体力,是脑力,是消耗生命。  
   只是设计师都躲在深夜的房间里付出,大家都看不到,到大家看到的时候,就成了大家认为的几个色块而已。


   设计师很善良,不敢跟大家说“不”,因为说了“不”,就成了吝啬的人。
   设计师很善良,几秒钟的“没问题”,换来几个昼夜的通宵生命消耗
   设计师很善良,什么都答应大家,因为你们是我们的好朋友。  
   所以,请尊重设计师们的劳动成果

   别拿设计不当产品,世界上没有免费的设计餐。伤害精神和皮肤换来的帮忙,喝十支胶原蛋白都补不回来。

Yes I saw this & I think it really tells something. Something about design. So RESPECT k :D 

不做男女朋友,做蓝颜吧


有种友谊不低于爱情,不叫暧昧,叫蓝颜
  你们可能相爱过,你们也可能喜欢着彼此,
  但是,为了什么原因你们没能在一起?
  也许他为了朋友之间的义气,不能追你。
  也许为了顾及家人的意见 ,你们没有在一起。
  也许为了自己的前程,他没有要你等他。


  也许你们相遇太早,
  还不懂得珍惜对方。
  也许你们相遇太晚,
  你们身边已经有了另一个人。
  也许你回头太迟,
  对方已不再等待。
  也许你们彼此在捉摸对方的心,
  而迟迟无法跨出界线。
  不过即使你们没在一起,
  你们还是保持了朋友的关系。
  但是你们心底清楚,
  对这个人,你比朋友还多了一份关心

  每个人这辈子,
  心中都有过这麽一个特别的朋友,
  很矛盾的行为。
  一开始你不甘心只做朋友的,
  但久了,突然发现这样最好。
  你宁愿这样关心他,
  总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。
  你宁愿做他的朋友,
  彼此不会吃醋,才可以真的无所不谈。
  特别是这样,
  你还是知道,
  他永远会关心你的。

  做不成男女朋友,
  当他那个特别的朋友,
  有什么不好呢?
  有这样一个人我很喜欢却不忍动情~~
  因为我知道如果我们成为男女朋友我们就不能像现在这样无所顾忌的无话不谈 ,我会更在乎他对自己的看法
  因为我知道如果我们成为男女朋友我们就会要求对方更多,想占为己有,会吃醋,会吵架……
  到最后也许会分手…………
  所以这样最好…………

aloh !

Okay Chinese New Year ended so fast. & I'm here to share photos lah. Not much this year. Still the same old bai nian event. Yes i love bai nian where you get to go here and there. So fun !

Dinner at home before Chinese New Year which is called 年三十晚。I miss homefood ! :(




Then,


Finally a family photo during this CNY ! 

My family never take photo together before during CNY. Well this year is different. Bought new camera means i can take a lot of photos la :D :D !! 

First day of CNY. 

Chor 1








Chor 2


@ Shuwei's 






left one is Shuwei.


& @ Lailai's 



camwhore !!!




Chor 3




Angel's place which I go every year since the age of 5 i think ? It had become a habit of my family to go her house on Chor 3



this is Angel & her mom.


Us. which we all met & become friends @ her place ! 


Group photo together !

Then Deanna's house. But I didn't took any photos at her house because was too crowded. But i can show u her photo la. we took together at Lailai's house.


After deanna's, is my jimui Vshu's place. 










I forgot to take photos with him ! Sorry ! who tell u so busy ! Hahahha 


Chor 4




Denise's place. Didnt took photos also coz was too busy LAMI+ing. :D 


Lavender's place at night.


met karyee @ Brian's house.


Thats all for CNY photos loh. :)

and

Yup finally my previous assignments had ended. Now is a new week means new assignments la. Haha OK la. I sleep a lot these days. Was so tired every time after class. Done mask last night and feel so refreshing. yes you have to treat yourself better sometimes. Oh yea and i was saving money on everything too. Like eating cheap food everyday. No more sunway pyramid's food. Is too expensive & I do not want to always call mum to bank in. It feels so sorry to her if i spend a lot. What can save jiu save la. :D and it makes me happy also.



Is my Year 2 already now. Have to be more concentrate ! No more playing. Yup I was staying at home everyday. Last year i always go walk walk in pyramid one after class. So compare to this year, LESS ! Hahahah but still will like go pyramid to walk walk twice a month or more lu. Cannot stay at home too long one, will become indoors-woman later hahah well till here la. Nothing to say much. Gonna continue with the assignments. Yes i got presentation tomorrow wish me luck la k. tata !



p/s: promise myself not to cry anymore if is stress. I think im too weak. :D